She’s the woman he plays with, not the one he marries. That gal also says “yes” when he calls on Friday afternoon for a Friday evening date.
You are both over 40, and he’s either matured enough to keep his word about calling you, or he hasn’t. The gal who emails “just to confirm” sends the signal she’s willing to accept him even if he doesn’t come through with his promises. As important as letting him take the lead, especially at the beginning. You want him to know you’re serious about finding a man whose word you can trust and that you respect yourself and expect him to as well. It’s on your list as a must-have, isn’t it? Whether a man keeps his word is extremely important. Not calling him and waiting it out will reveal his true character. That’s a date, right? Wait and see what he does. Not to mention a total waste of time … But he asked you out and, although it was up in the air about the details, it was set to do a particular thing on a particular night. I know it’s difficult to wait – kind of painful even. If I don’t hear from him by this afternoon, is it okay if I email or call him and ask him if we are still on? My date for Saturday hasn’t confirmed place or time. Not only do I answer whether she should call him, I help her make sure this situation doesn’t happen again. What follows is my email exchange with my private coaching client, “Jean.” Unfortunately, this is a common situation, even when you are over 40, “should I call” is still a dilemma - especially when you’re meeting men using online dating.
You email your friend or your dating coach and ask: What should I do? Should I call him? You’re fretting over what to do next.įriday morning comes, and you wonder, “Do we actually have a date?” What should I do? Should I call him? Friday morning comes, and you wonder, “Do we actually have a date?” You’re disappointed: maybe a little mad. In fact, you’re already wondering what you’re going to wear and what you’re going to talk about. You like him, and you’re looking forward to Saturday. You: Woohoo!!!!!! (Okay…I added that on for dramatic effect.) Nice Guy: Okay, I’ll call you later in the week to firm up the plans. Nice Guy: Do you want to go out for dinner Saturday night? After some chit-chat he finally asks you out on a date. It’s Monday and you’re talking on the phone with a nice guy you’re interested in. So, should you call him? Here’s the answer, sister. Don’t you hate when he promised you a date but leaves you sitting there wondering if you’re really going out? I mean you are both over 40, so why still play these “who should call” games?
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